There are however some interesting old papers on the technique. Usually people approximate the first derivative by the central approximation of second order:
$$ f'(x) = \frac{f(x_{i+1})-f(x_{i-1})}{x_{i+1} - x_{i-1}} $$
However there are some other possibilities. For example one can find a formula directly out of the Taylor expansions of f(x(i+1)) and f(x(i-1)). This paper and that one seems to indicate it is more precise, especially when the grid does not vary smoothly (a typical example is uniform by parts).
This can make a big difference in practice, here is the example of a Bond priced under the Cox-Ingersoll-Ross model by finite differences. EULER is the classic central approximation, EULER1 uses the more refined approximation based on Taylor expansion, EULER2 uses Taylor expansion approximation as well as a higher order boundary condition. I used the same parameters as in the Tavella-Randall book example and a uniform grid between [0,0.2] except that I have added 2 points at the far end at 0.5 and 1.0. So the only difference between EULER and EULER1 lies in the computation of derivatives at the 3 last points.
I also computed the backward 2nd order first derivative on a non uniform grid (for the refined boundary). I was surprised not to find this easily on the web, so here it is:
$$ f'(x_i) = \left(\frac{1}{h_i}+\frac{1}{h_i+h_{i-1}}\right) f(x_i)- \left(\frac{1}{h_{i-1}}+\frac{1}{h_i}\right) f(x_{i-1})+ \left(\frac{1}{h_{i-1}} - \frac{1}{h_i+h_{i-1}} \right) f(x_{i-2}) + ...$$ Incidently while writing this post I found out it was a pain to write Math in HTML (I initially used a picture). MathML seems a bit crazy, I wonder why they couldn't just use the LaTeX standard. Update January 3rd 2013 - I now use Mathjax. It's not very good solution as I think this should typically be handled by the browser directly instead of huge javascript library, but it looks a bit better